Old School Discipline vs. New Age Parenting: What The Research Says & What We Actually Think

Every generation thinks they got discipline right. The generation before them thinks they went too soft. And the generation after them wonders why they turned out the way they did. The conversation about how to discipline a child — especially in Black families — has never been louder, more contested, or more personal. Old school said: the belt teaches respect. New research says: it teaches fear. The old way produced grit. The new way produces therapy bills. Or does it?

In this episode of Past Present Pushback, XO, AZ, and CDA get into the real conversation about child discipline — old school versus today. The statistics behind what changed. Why it changed. What the four parenting styles actually produce in children long-term. Where the belt fits in the history of Black parenting. Why social media, CPS, and changing laws shifted the whole dynamic. And the honest question three men who were raised the old way have to answer: did it work? And what are we doing differently with our own children?

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